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硕士女老总为陪女儿读书 弃职当学生宿舍管理员
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        她拥有名校硕士学历,曾是一家公司的副老总;她又是一位母亲,女儿现在华一寄宿学校读初二。为了照顾女儿的学习和生活,这位付姓妈妈毅然放弃了自己的事业,应聘到女儿就读的学校,做起了学生宿舍管理员,开始了另类的“陪读”生活。
  
  付妈妈衣着得体谈吐不俗,她于去年11月放弃了公司副总的职位,当起了华一寄宿学校宿管员,负责3号楼的管理。“当初应聘时确实是想着照顾自己的孩子,但现在却是为了宿舍里的孩子们,过惯了这种充实的生活,想离开也不容易了。”
  
  付妈妈告诉记者:“我就一个丫头,从小比较娇惯,一直陪在身边,上初中要住读了,我怕她不习惯。”她原本打算在学校附近租房陪读,但打听到学校管理严格,平时很难接触到孩子,她有些犹豫。一个偶然的机会,她听说学校在招聘宿管员,连忙前去应聘,结果真就心想事成。
  
  过去管人家,现在被人家管,尽管身份地位骤降,且每个月的收入只是过去的“九牛一毛”,但付妈妈觉得值,“我并不觉得心理上有什么落差,我就是想陪着孩子一起成长,知道她在我身边,心里才踏实!”付妈妈还表示,孩子将来上高中,她也打算陪读,去国外读大学,有条件的话她也会跟着一起。
  
  和付妈妈一起应聘入校的,还有另外几名打算借机“陪读”的妈妈。负责1号楼的李妈妈是监利人,她说去年孩子入校上学后,一直不太适应,离家又远回来一次不易,考虑再三后,她辞职来汉在学校谋得了这份差事。相比之下,袁妈妈的初衷就“单纯”得多———她的先生在这所学校执教,女儿又考入了该校,她自己“在家闲得无聊”便应聘做了宿管员。
  
  由于工作繁琐而辛苦,之前和她们一同应聘入校的“陪读”妈妈,在孩子适应了住读学校生活后,便选择了撤退,但这三位妈妈坚守了下来。
  
  对于当下的生活,三位妈妈形容“累并快乐着”,同孩子们在一起,让她们拥有了年轻的心,“如果说,过去应聘宿管员,是为了孩子,现在却是为了自己!”
  
  另类陪读引发争议
  
  对于付妈妈这样另类“陪读”的做法,旁观的家长和学生们如何看待?
  
  在凯迪电力工作的杨女士表示,自己的孩子正在外校住校,她也渴望每天陪伴着孩子,但如果要她放弃现在的工作,降身为又苦又累的宿管员,她没有这个勇气,“可怜天下父母心哪,这三位妈妈真是伟大,爱孩子胜过爱自己,希望她们的付出有回报!”“家长放弃自己的事业,一味为孩子牺牲,这应该就是‘孩奴’了!你可以陪孩子一时,能陪一辈子吗?”身为公务员的张先生一方面感叹付妈妈们的胆识,一方面质疑如此牺牲是否会给孩子带来负面影响,毕竟家长是孩子的终身老师,一言一行都铭刻在他们的心里。在他的记忆中,自己的父母并没有为他牺牲太多,高考期间,父母忙得不着家。现在想起来,他很感激父母,因为父母的不包办、不牺牲,给了他足够的成长空间,让他练就各种本领,一步步从小村庄拼到了大都市。
  
  受访的中小学生则坦言,他们不希望父母为了他们牺牲太多。就读东湖中学的林同学的说法很具代表性,她说如果父母为了她,放弃了自己的追求和理想,过得很辛苦,会让她压力倍增。
  
  对此,武汉大学心理特聘教授尹邓安表示,教育子女,做父母的要有牺牲精神,但必须掌握好度。如果当父母放弃自己的理想和追求,凡事为孩子包办代替,沦为“孩奴”,就会过得非常辛苦,这样会滋生孩子的惰性,久而久之孩子的责任意识、自主能力会缺失,这样的孩子长大了反而缺乏竞争力。

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