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不要反过来灌上司喝酒

我第一次陪老板出去吃饭,办公室的一个前辈说,有人给老板灌酒的时候要帮老板挡酒。所以我按照前辈的箴言,吃饭的时候很主动地接对方递过来酒。几杯过后老板倒是清醒得很,我就头有点小晕了。敬完了客户,走到老板面前让老板也一起喝,看到我这样老板只能硬着头皮喝。第二天清醒了后,我把吃饭的过程告诉前辈,前辈便数落我不懂事,哪有一边帮老板挡酒,一边还给老板灌酒的。

不要两手空空地去吃饭

办公室小K突然说请吃饭,还说会带女朋友过来。吃饭的地方是个挺高级的餐厅,吃到了一半,小K搂着女朋友站起来,说今天其实是他们俩订婚的日子,因为不想太高调,所以就请同部门的同事聚一下。其他同事纷纷拿出了自己或者几个凑份子买的礼物送给他们,只有我像个外星人一样,张大了嘴巴,瞪圆了眼睛,可以想象两手空空的我在那个场合下多尴尬!想想也是,我既然知道没人会平白无故地请客,怎么还会傻到两手空空地去吃饭!

不要太放纵自己

我们新来的那个女同事就比较放得开。那次公司搞活动一起出去旅游,大家入座吃饭顶多也就是谈笑风生,没想到那女孩主动移到老总身边,用夹生的韩语一遍一遍去敬酒。几杯下肚开始手舞足蹈,放大了胆子把手搭在老总身上。自那以后,这位新来的女同事没得到多少人缘,大家都私底下不屑与这样的“乱性者”为伍。而另一头,老总似乎也没有如她设想那般对她有特殊照顾,而是“谈此女色变”。

酒水饮料大权留给领导

有一次领导让我晚上一起去陪客户,到了饭桌上,领导把菜单转到我面前叫我点菜时,我就慌了神。好不容易心惊胆战点完了几个自认为比较安全的菜,心里早已经七上八下不辨方向,也不知是不是过于紧张想转嫁掉情绪喘口气,我把菜单递给了领导,问他要什么酒水。领导顺手接过,我也顺利交接了“皮球”。往后每逢应酬饭局让我点菜时,我便总把酒水饮料的决定权交由领导,一来说明我不是从头到尾自作主张,二来也让领导对饭局预算有一个终局性的把握。

新人要会难得糊涂

工作了一段时间,便有同事请我下班后一起去聚餐。饭桌上的事情是最捉摸不透的,但去还是要去。当时我心里就想好了对策:难得糊涂。等菜的时候便是大家互吹牛皮的时刻,讲笑话没问题,但讲到原则性笑话的时候新人还是不要多语,天知道这是不是老员工在试探你道行深浅呢。

菜上来了,一桌人边吃边聊,从股市暴跌讲到商场让利,作为新人抵嘴是必须的,否则人家会以为你故作深沉,但更多时候则是点头和赞叹,前辈总是想在新人面前倚老卖老一番的,即使他的观点和你针锋相对。我认为和同事吃饭,最要紧便是难得糊涂。

顾全老板就是顾全大局

老板带我出差去了趟广西,办完事情自然少不了一顿吃,桂林美食着实让我垂涎三尺。但现在是老板带着你吃,所以不好表现得太过张扬,但也要适时表现一下。老板随和,点菜的时候会不时征求一下我的意见,于是强大的料理知识储备便派上了用场,谦逊地点评了一下菜色,老板笑意融融。

老板点完,问我还要什么,我瞄了眼菜单,没有鱼,老板爱吃鱼是全部门出名的,脑筋一转想起广西特色菜里有几个是鱼,便点了一个,老板笑意更浓。吃饭时候,免不了喝酒,老板不能喝也是大家心知肚明的,一个眼色,我便揽下了挡酒的活儿。一顿饭下来,做成了生意,也做成了人情。

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